When there is a problem in r/s, you talk it through..
Telling the other party to reflect, is not the right way..
Maybe in some circumstances you can..but not all..

When problems happened, its not right to leave the other party alone.
When a baby cry, are you gonna leave the baby alone?
The crying will only get worst.

You don’t even bother to find me the whole evening..
When I start to contact you, you didn’t answer
A sms came, saying “sorry, cant hear phone ring”
And That’s it..
I called again..and stil no answer..
I don’t even know what are you doing..
In another way, you don’t know what I am doing too.
I might be outside clubbing, flirting. But you don’t even care..
Or maybe you are outside flirting, Who knows? No one.
I told you this, you said “you don’t wanna gonna comment much”
You don’t even bother.

When you use this method asking me to reflect, yes some problem it might works
But not all.
When it don’t work, change another method and not sticking to the old-fashion method.
Still, talking everything out is always the best.
You say I act like this person, I act like that person.
But have you think about yourself?
When people learn/treasure only when lost, its because they take things for granted.
Thinking things will change in what-ever way the person does.
But everything is just so wrong.

I cried, pitying myself..not because of the love..
I guess its not the right sign..
I even have the courage to sms “ I hate you”
That sounds so very not right..
Maybe part of the love has become hate..
Always asking me to reflect, but did u ever reflect on yourself..
If you are not going to bother, I am not going to.
I can take 1 day, 1 month, 1 year to reflect if nothing is showed I should.
So are you gonna contact me only 1 year later?
Because you don’t even bother.
I might die without you, but I will definitely be stronger without you.